"Compliments" as discussed with Miss B one day recently when
she was fussing about taking a bath and getting her
hair washed....
No other pictures to follow in this post.....Just my take on
receiving and giving the ever popular
"compliment..."
and what you do to keep yourself feeling young...
You may or may not find this helpful or interesting :)
there is a point to this story....
I explained to B how important it is to always look
your best and smell your best when leaving your home....
forgot that whole "you might be in a accident thing so make sure you have on clean underwear"...
It's all about someone saying something nice to you....
Because who doesn't like to get a compliment...
Then I gave her my Key to Personal Happiness...
When I leave the house I don't go home until I receive
at least one or more compliments....
the daughter can verify this....
Yes crazy I know but it makes for a better day....
I would say my average is 9 for 10.....
it's usually my hair that someone comments on even
though I have had the same hair cut since high school....
Hey....it works for me....
The best one recently came from a few of the
Greeters at the Georgia Dome....I was even surprised by that one...
First thing you need to know is you have to be a talker....
I will talk to anyone who looks at me crooked...This makes for
a much easier chance of someone saying something nice
to you....
I never leave home without perfume on.....
it never fails...... someone....usually in the meat department at
Publix....... gets a whiff and comments how good the smell is ....
Then there's the whole back and forth about what it is and how it smells so good on me.....might not smell so good on
someone else for reasons I don't think anyone knows...
For years I was a big user of Shalimar when the folks would go cruising and bring me back a bottle "duty free"....
those days dried up back in the 80's so I went years without
any scent....then I discovered Clinique's Aromatic Elixir....
Loved it....family and pets hated it.....it used to make the dogs sneeze.....But the shoppers at Publix were drawn to it like flies...
Never went shopping wearing it without a compliment...
I got carried away at some point by being noticed
and used just a squirt too much.....
a half a squirt is too much of this stuff....so I gave it up....
Daughter then got me Donna Karan's Cashmere Mist...
this elicits lots of compliments because it's recognized by many
so you then get...."Oh your wearing Cashmere Mist it smells so good"....
A biggie in the compliment department is drive a cute car...
something bright and sporty preferably a convertible...
easier for kind remarks if the top is down...
From toll takers to people stopped at traffic lights...
people who work the drive thru at fast food joints are
prime candidates for a few nice words....
great too because you can get your food and get it home
before it gets cold....compliment accepted and
appreciated...
Then there is the infamous
"Solicited Compliment"
this is when no one is saying anything and your getting tired
and you want to go home.....but....let's try just one more trick....
Usually in a retail establishment this works best....
You find someone who you clearly see is younger
then you but they don't look so good for their age....
This works extremely well with men...and some women
cashiers....people who stand on their feet all day..
You comment on not being able to see whatever.....the receipt..
the little machine that takes your debit card...anything...
You mention that losing your eyesight is a downfall
of getting old.....
To which the person will reply....
"Oh I bet I'm a lot older then you are".....
it never fails....they are usually at least 5 to 8 years
younger then I am.....
this just happened when the man cashier at Staples said to me
"Oh I'm 58".....to which I quickly upped him with...
"I'm 62".....
here it came....
"You need to do whatever it is your doin honey because you don't look
that old".....
Time to go home!!
One last thing.....
I'm really not a shallow person.....although it sounds that way...
No...I love to give compliments just as much as I love
getting them...
Even if you don't mean it you will make some one's day...
I just saw a young cashier in my travels and I noticed she
had on blue nail polish.....Now believe me no one
should wear blue nail polish but she looked tired from
standing all day and didn't look happy....
so I said....
"I love your Tiffany colored nail polish"
Here face lit up with a big smile and she thanked me....
I felt like I made this girls day....
even though her nails really didn't look good at all....
I also always stop to talk to the "cheese guy" at Publix...
and that's just what I call him....
we chit chat and I always try to ask him some cheese related or cooking with cheese question so he feels his job is important...
He seems like this makes him happy our little weekly talks...
So where does this all lead to after reading how I spend my days
out and about.....it really just comes down to this....
If I lie then that means other people lie so basically
I have bad outdated hair.....I smell bad from excessive perfume.........I'm old....
I wear odd clothing....and I talk to strangers who probably think I'm a Nut......
the part about the car is 100% accurate as the daughter has found out....she now is at the compliment end when driving the
V.W. Bug thru toll plazas and fast food joints....
I figure I'm not really bothering anyone and it makes me
Happy.....you should try it!